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A free and easy lifestyle... ah ha.. what do you think Adam is trying to tell you about himself and his value system?
Is he preparing you for the freedom he may want to have with you someday.. soon?
Now might be a very good time to let him know what your values are in the area of purity and chastity.
If you want to have a relationship with Adam, or any future boyfriend, that is pleasing to God and that is physically and emotionally pure... now, might be a very good time to let Adam know your wishes.
Setting personal boundaries early in a relationship is a very healthy and powerful way to keep the relationship blessed by God.
Please think about letting Adam know that you are trying to live a lifestyle based upon chastity. Which means... saving sexual pleasures for your wedding night and your future husband.
This will require self control on your part and on the part of any man you date. The sooner Adam learns this... the better.
I will pray that God inspires you how to tell Adam.
Amen.
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